Be Gentle
February 12, 2020 4 CommentsAt IISC we believe that collaboration is possible if we focus on results, process, and relationships. We also understand that it’s hard to collaborate and do the work of racial equity if we pressure ourselves to work and “do” at a pace that depletes us and keeps us from experiencing our humanness and connection with each other. I offer this poem in that spirit to all our friends and visitors.
Be Gentle
Be gentle on yourself
Like lapping waters drifting to your toes
A kitten’s cuddle at your calves
The nestled warmth of glowing ember
We are stretching too hard
Too thin
Breaking spirits
Twisting lives
Northeast dwellers haunted by those that arrived at Plymouth rock
Who created an epicenter of work til you drop
And colonize til you drop
And enslave until you profit
Working working working themselves
Working working working stolen people
on stolen land
This we have inherited
A ceaseless mantra in our head that
More needs more
More needs to be created
And more needs to be sustained
And we get sick
And we yell at each other
And train our kids and workers to emulate the same
Hurting our hearts
Our earth
And our births
We need not look far for models to reclaim our humanity
The way we treated earth as wondrous toddlers
The circles of the Wampanoags and First Nations
Rituals and spirituals of Africans
Buddhists and indigenous religions
Peace makers
Healers
And lovers
To simply breathe
Walk slowly with intention
Hold each other in times of conflict in circle
Sing songs of cherishment and liberation
Listen until someone is truly finished
Share meals and libations
Till and protect our earth together
And fearlessly love
We are enough
Right now
Right here
To silence the frenetic finger on the text and keyboard
To engage in single task to explore our natural focus
To walk slowly
To lie down for rest and nap
To embrace a friend, child, elder or lover
To take stock of our mind and body
To eat well
Think well
And make brighter decisions
So we can turn around
And notice
this
beautiful world.
4 Comments
Thank you, Kelly!
Kudos to you Ms. Kelly Bates for rendering such and intense yet meaningful poem, “Be Gentle”. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to also enjoy the in-depth essence of the poem and the idea of collaboration attempting to give results, relationship and process has been sent across as a clear message through your words. Highly appreciated.
Lovely and Timely. Thank you , Kelly.
I’m pausing.
I’m breathing.
I’m holding my hand, gently, over my heart:
I’m thankful.